I Survived the Influenza 2020

Hey girls!
It’s 2020!
I said I was going to write about being single.
So….
Being single past a certain “age” or time in your life
Is the same as a scarlet letter I guess.. Right…?
I’m turning 26 in about a month, so what
Isn't this the most logical time to be s i n g l e? &&&
Alll about yourself and YOUR life?
To figure out myself and life without a mess of a man?
Yes, I said MESS of a man cause 
I’m sure you’ve seen what I’ve gotten myself into
Many many times….. (speakin to my clients and friends)
Since obvi I do not post much about who I'm with on
Social Media..

I’m tired of family parties
Where you hear
“Oh yes, that’s Shelby she finally made it 
(I rarely attend family outings) and yes, she’s still single”
She’s THAT single mom 

News FLASH: I’m totally living the dream of which
All you girls wish you had.
I pay my own bills with no obligations to anyone.
Men ya see if they are single nobody even questions.
I hate that I get so annoyed about people having this look
In their eyes when I say I’m single
Honestly, it probably only makes me stay single even longer.
I wanna go on vacations and not think of a man 
Getting mad because I can go without him.
(I had that a couple times) 
They end up messing the trip up for you. 

 Next..
Break ups, my god Breakups 
THEY BREAK YOU.
I don’t want to be hurt and I don’t want to hurt anyone else.
I’m at the point now where I’m almost rebelling against 
The idea of a relationship, yes, there’s some
Men on my mind where I see a future with them 
If I put myself out there but then think of how bad it is 
When It doesn’t work out.

So, thanks, I’ll pass
You gotta blow this girls mind to get me to see past that.

I’m doing a girls hair for her wedding, I like her, 
she is a great friend actually.
But I’ll be hitting that wedding alone 
Well with my kiddo of course
My ex may or may not be there
Okay sooo...
We’ve all been there right? The dreaded events
Of ex’s around reminding you how much 
You suck at relationships
Lord help a girl out.

The way I see things now is that,
I am OFFICIALLY in my prime and I’m
Not wasting my body on just one man, Isn’t that for Marriage?

I will have a meaningful life until the one and only pops in
&& gets these blind eyes to see again. 
Well...
Until next time bloggers

:) stay single

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