Shelbylchance

We all know what hardships are, and when we experience them it obliviously changes us. Changes us for the better, or maybe even changes us in a way that will turn our whole life around. A way we did not even think we would go down, like "that scary road". When I say "that scary road" I mean complete 180 of who you are, who you thought you are. The way you hold yourself, the way you think, and the new wants in life (career, home, adventures ect).  I have changed so much in the past year and a half. Soon maybe I will open up to explain further to you readers on how I have changed but for now I am opening up about a season of life many my age do not have to go through.. Today in Tempe, at the Hayden Library I found a quiet spot. This spot has the most comfy chairs, very large beautiful windows looking down on all the ASU students and to the left of me there is a "Cultural Expressions of Grief and Death" Subject. Well, here it is a book finding me that is spea...

I’ve missed you all, and thanks to the ones who’ve reach out for me keep blogging.  Sometimes you need time to breathe, to become inspired, to sit back and soak in all your accomplishments. People will drain you, and I mean like literally drain you. Examples 1) I get 1 full day off a week ladies, one of my half days last week I got new garage doors installed, I was told a set price so now I’m “prepared” with the funds needed for it. Well get this the guy upped the price after all installation is done, no paper work was made before so I gotta pay. Boom financial drain, then the guy breaks my grandmas key fob *smack some now financial/physically drain cause my one day off I get to figure out how to get this key fixed and car to the shop. Being the independent woman I am, (still single) I have to do this so called life by myself. Which means now no full day off in 2 weeks.  2) Ive tried to create some friendships along the past couple weeks and what happens? Mental Freakin Drain ...

How are you? Like really how are you?  Now if you are like me when you hear those words you just wanna  lay it all out. But you don't because why? Why?? Since Covid, nobody is okay, even the air feels different. The way all these lives on earth speak and think is different. Where am I going with this? No where really other then hey, I'm here You are not alone and also, thanks for being here with me through the screen. Question perfect timing for Mother's Day Have you been craving time for yourself? WELL. miss I am here to give you permission. (like you actually need it)  Please fill your cup up Doing so will 100% help you and your surroundings. (ya'll are wild out there) Now update all last year I killed it, I did college classes, mom life, granddaughter life (it's a long story), stylist life. etc Now I use to read a lot until well someone came into my life  I got a little distract. ew, am I right? NEXT subject .asap. Get this girls I opened my book up today that I ...

1994- I was born 6th Grade- I became Class of Rep for Student Council,  started drumming, great at drawing. Freshman- High School now pretty smart for school,  yet still in speech classes (low class for English).  I work with one side of my brain from what I believe (literally) Life turned upside down personally. Quit drums and drawing,  got into even more of the wrong crowd. Sophomore- Got elected in Student Government,  and then Dropped out (I know makes no sense)  got my GED, and started Beauty school. 2014 (20 yr old)- Stayed in the hair career,  had a babygirl, became officially single,  did all I could to keep bills paid. Now there are plenty of horrible things I didn’t tell you.  I pretty much just skimmed things off the top of my head to pick. Also, unless you get straight out of beauty school and  think “I’m going to make tons of money, you are just  going to be lost at min wage salo...

Hey girls! It’s 2020! I said I was going to write about being single. So…. Being single past a certain “age” or time in your life Is the same as a scarlet letter I guess.. Right…? I’m turning 26 in about a month, so what Isn't this the most logical time to be s i n g l e? &&& Alll about yourself and YOUR life? To figure out myself and life without a mess of a man? Yes, I said MESS of a man cause  I’m sure you’ve seen what I’ve gotten myself into Many many times….. (speakin to my clients and friends) Since obvi I do not post much about who I'm with on Social Media.. I’m tired of family parties Where you hear “Oh yes, that’s Shelby she finally made it  (I rarely attend family outings) and yes, she’s still single” She’s THAT single mom  News FLASH: I’m totally living the dream of which All you girls wish you had. I pay my own bills with no obligations to anyone. Men ya see if they are single nobody even ques...

Okay, let’s just say it. Blogs are pretty much meant for girls right? It’s meant for other girls to read so they can compare their lives to the blogger. Am I right? Everybody judges, honestly sometimes we feed off of it. Reality tv shows, social media, FACEBOOK. You. Name. It. Life is great over here in my world.  I love this whole blogging thing cause I don’t really see the point to  Hold back about anything in my life.  I’m a hairstylist everybody knows everything in my life. I’m an open book so why not type it down? The more you get to know my day to day life The more you’ll Be like, WTF. Seriously, everyday I amaze myself. It’s Sunday I’ve skipped 1 week of blogging but when I think a bout it, this isn’t my job it’s a hobby Away of just having secret blogging friends. So, Hi friend behind the screen I’ll keep you Blogged updated:) Christmas is coming up & personally this year is ruff. Wait. Did I say this year? Wh...

Saturday morning at 7am.. Crazy I know to be on my laptop writing but I did actually write yesterday while  I had a nice glass of wine at 3pm. So here it is, me editing it. 1 glass of wine deep at 3pm on a Friday afternoon. I’m a mom/caregiver and a homeowner at 25 (which I personally think  is pretty old, old enough to have my priorities together right?)  well nope. I don't, I should be working but…  We won't get into that right now.  That’s one thing about being your own boss. Now…  Let’s talk about being a homeowner. Home. Owner Not a I rent here blah blah, I’m talking about  the label of the HOA just sent you a letter that they will be sending you a fine if you do not remove the  "dead tree" in the front yard type of homeowner  (I hate that tree and I’m glad its dead). But shit…… I have 2 days to find someone to  remove it for me because let's look at the facts… I’m weak, 94 pounds, a...